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The Do’s and Don'ts of Meditating

The Do’s and Don'ts of Meditating Many people stop Meditating after a while because they do not start in the proper way. They choose the wrong course, read the wrong book, speak with the wrong people, sit uncomfortably or view it as an obligation. In this site we emphasise the idea that everything is personal and that especially in the beginning you should experiment with various techniques and postures. Never forget that for many thousands of people and for an increasing number of scientists Meditation has proved its usefulness. This means that it is not only a matter of experimenting, but also of not giving up. Experience shows that if you just go on long enough, you are sure to see marked changes in your life. What have you got to lose? Decide for yourself to Meditate every day for a fixed number of weeks or months and just wait and see what will happen.

To prevent a wrong start, here some tips on things that should NEVER do and things that you should NEVER FORGET to do.

The Don'ts of Meditating


  • Be annoyed by other people that are so stupid as never to Meditate.
  • Treat Meditating as a sort of obsession.
  • Check all the time if you have already achieved enlightenment.
  • Meditate every day after having had a great dinner.
  • Get angry with yourself if you have not Meditated one day.
  • Fight falling asleep during your Meditation.
  • Want to Meditate far too long in the beginning.
  • Play a Metallica CD which helps you to consult your inner being during a Meditation.
  • Choose a school of Meditation that gives you the creeps.
  • During the Meditation worry about the question whether you do it well enough.
  • Sit in a painful and awkward position.
  • Get stressed when once in a while your are so busy that you may have to skip a session.
  • Meditate while you are stoned, drunk or on prozac.
  • Use a mantra that makes you nervous.
  • Be worried about the question whether you have a good Aura Day.
  • Be irritated by the noise made by the neighbours, your parrot or cars speeding past your window.
  • Wear uncomfortable clothes during your Meditation.
  • Block up or hide away thoughts and emotions that you do not like.
  • Meditate when you have just been diagnosed a schizophrenic.

The Do's of Meditating

  • In the beginning experiment a lot to find out which postures and techniques are best for you.
  • Start with a course where you can learn to Meditate under skilled guidance.
  • If you ever feel an ache or a slight irritation or you are in a bad mood not take a Medicine right away, but first try your favourite Meditation.
  • Wear comfortable clothes.
  • Create a fixed pattern in your Meditation exercises.
  • Never worry when once in while things do not go so well.
  • Find out how you feel about Meditating early in the morning on an empty stomach in perfectly restful circumstances.
  • Play a Meditation CD which will make your Meditation even more pleasant.
  • Evaluate your progress as little as possible….this has an adverse effect.
  • Change your Meditation technique once in a while.
  • Sit up straight, whether or not with the support of a cushion or the back of a seat (if you really have to).
  • Determine beforehand how long you are going to Meditate.
  • Look at everything from the point of view of a beginner.
  • Go with the flow.
  • Start your Meditation with some stretching or one of our breathing "warming up" exercises.
  • Not get frightened when you notice things like dizziness, twinklings, emotions or other reactions during your Meditation.
  • Always practise the Meditation philosophy of not judging, accepting and letting things go.
  • Consider it better to Meditate well and deeply than long and badly concentrated.
  • View passing aeroplanes and the hammer drill of the neighbours a challenge instead of a disturbance.
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Friday 3rd December 2010 at 4:38:10 AM  
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Most of our problems arise because we are not centered in the self.We have in this worldly journey walked far away from the self.Therefore first we should practice being with the self,being centered.I have submitted an article to the site about the importance of being centered,but it has not so far been cleared.So let us first practice to be just being with the self.Do not bother about posture,timings,feelings and so on.

Lie down or recline in a bed if necessary,but be with yourself.Do alternate nostril breathing or recite AUM if you are not comfortable,but just be there.Do not do anything.Do not try anything.Be in the lap of God.Rest God will do.You do not bother.

Please note that meditation is a long jouney.It may take years,may be many lives to reach there.So do not think of the ultimate.

But positive results you start getting very soon, the moment you gradually get centered.You feel happy.You feel more satisfied.You feel more contented.You feel more in harmony with yourself,and with the world.You become more confident,more enthusiastic,more eager to accept new challenges,more interested in fixing your goals(even for material gains)higher.

And mind it no posturing,sitting straight,lotus-pose is needed for it.Those are requirements at advance stage when we have reached a level,and we want to reach the next level.

Unfortunately we are taught in commercial shops,selling meditation,about posturing,straight spine,lotus pose,and so on.That is just to make the process look difficult,which it is not.Path to God, which meditation is,one of the simplest in the world.And please note that I am speaking from decades of personal experience.

And remember what Amelia E. barr,British American author says—

“It is always the simple that produces the marvelous.”

“Solitude is such a potential thing. We hear voices in solitude, we never hear in the hurry and turmoil of life; we receive counsels and comforts, we get under no other condition . . .”

 
 
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